Monday, November 12, 2012

Like Brown Bananas...

I've missed this place.  But there are reasons that I've been away for so long and haven't had the time to sit down and spread out my thoughts like the sheets on a freshly made bed.  It's simple, yet complicated.   Easy to push this aside, yet so, so hard.  Writing is good for my soul, but there there have been other things to put first these past six months.  It's the most basic, fundamental principle for motherhood--putting others needs ahead of our own, and I wouldn't trade these past six months for all the blog posts in the blogosphere.

It's that time again...

I have about four weeks until we add another little Shoe into our family photo.  I know, I could have shared this with you sooner, and I thought about it SO many times, but, well, to be honest...this Momma ain't as young as she used to be and quite frankly, I've been beyond exhausted for a good bit of this pregnancy.  And, I'm sure I don't have to explain...Momma and Baby's health comes before blogging :)

And besides that, I've been soaking up the moments that I've spent with our Fab Five before our world gets turned upside down again.  Starting back at square one is hard on ALL of us.  What was normal is totally disrupted and we start anew.  A blessing, yes.  But still hard some days.

So after we shared the news of anticipating our newest blessing with family and friends, I decided that I needed to focus less on extra things and more on being intentional with my children.  Because, you see, up until we found out about Baby #6, I was getting a bit distracted by things that are good, but non-essential in daily life.

My children, at times, were like the brown bananas that are often in my fridge--that I look at and think, "I really should do something with them soon."  Always waiting for me...amidst the laundry, dishes, errands, email, get the picture.  So I made up my mind to put aside the non-essential and focus on what matters to me most--my faith, family and friends.

So yes, writing is good for my soul.  But so is connecting to the people most dear to me and creating special moments for our family as it is NOW...before we begin a new chapter in this crazy life we live.  I hope you'll check back periodically because there is More Beautiful Chaos to come...

Praise God...My Cup Runneth Over

Thursday, April 19, 2012

More wisdom from a Dove:)

I've really been working hard to do just this lately, so I had to smile when I read this little silver wrapper...

It's not always easy to accomplish this in our humble home of seven, especially when there is so much to keep tidy and organized.  The project I've been working hard to tackle the past few weeks is the dreaded playroom.  I've asked the children for months (I'm totally not joking--months) to help me get the room in order because you couldn't even walk in the place.  But I realized that I can't expect my kiddos to be up to the challenge when I, myself, hyperventilated every time I looked into the room.  Well, I finally mustered up the motivation to divide and conquer.

Now you see it...
Now you don't...
What's crazy is that the first photo was actually after I had already done some work cleaning and sorting in there!!! Unbelievable, yes, but it was worse than that when I started:(

How did we do it?  Well, with the help of my very generous children, we gave a lot of it away.  Stuff they weren't using anymore, stuff they weren't taking proper care of because it wasn't something that they cared much about, and lots of broken or junky odds and ends (i.e. McDonalds toys) made their way into the trash.

That my friends is our latest story of creating a happy place...but don't worry, I'm sure it won't stay this neat for long:)  I have five kids, remember?

Monday, April 16, 2012

Wisdom from a Dove

Some of you who may have been reading along for awhile may remember a little post I did about a special duck and might be starting to think I have a strange bird thing going on here...

But when I say Dove, I mean a little bit of chocolate:)

If these words of wisdom aren't a reason to treat myself to a little piece of chocolate every now and then, I don't know what is:)

When things in life get hard today, think of this little silver wrapper and stop to enjoy the small things in life.  Take it from can make all the difference between just "making it through the day" and loving the life that your living.

Enjoying the small things in life by counting one blessing at a time to 1000 and beyond...

201.  A love of singing

202.  The laughter of siblings

203.  Funny faces

204.  Freshly popped popcorn

205.  A silly toddler dance

206.  Cuddles on the couch

207.  Nighttime talks with my husband

208.  The dance of lightning across a black night sky

209.  My nightly ritual of picking various items up off the floor (in every room:)

210.  The hum of the window air conditioner

Monday, April 9, 2012

God Bless Our Mess

Something I never thought I would say...

"Why is there bologna in the frisbee?"

May God bless us in our mess today and may we open our eyes to the gifts that surround us, no matter what we find in our frisbees--
or our laundry hampers (see below:)  I love God's sense of humor!

My 1000 Gifts list continues...

186.  Buying veggie plants at our favorite greenhouse

187.  My husband getting the garden planted before more rain

188.  Planting sunflower seeds with my girls--that never actually grew:(

189.  The technology that allows us to share special photos with family and friends

190.  Having breakfast ready before I even go to bed:)

191.  Petals of irises blowing in a light breeze

192.  A sweet message from my husband

193.  Surprise crayon creations

194.  Tornado warnings

195.  Morning glory sprouts growing from seeds near our mailbox

196.  A little boy's calm, peaceful birthday party

197.  New shirts that were much needed

198.  Ceiling fans moving inside air on a hot day

199.  Dahlia blooms on the verge of opening any day

200.  An example of patience

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Happy Easter!!!

2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)

 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Another favorite YouTube video:)

I've been wanting to share this for a long time because I just think it is SO cool!  Watch this video and be amazed:)

What a wonderful reminder that things are not always what they seem...God has a plan for each of us.  And we don't always see things the way he does.  So many times in my life, looking backwards, I can see so clearly the path that God had set for me.  I realize that even when my world is upside down, God has a way of turning it around and showing me something amazing.  

Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NIV)

 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.

Romans 8:28 (NIV)

  And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

Monday, April 2, 2012

My love/hate relationship...

I mentioned before that I had to give myself a little "time-out" on the computer.  Why, you ask?  Well, it has a little something to do with my newest love/hate relationship.

Let me start out by saying that I LOVE the sharing of ideas.  I LOVE (an attempt) to organize.  I love technology that is useful and functional.  I love fun stuff!

What I hate is becoming obsessed with something that contributes to thoughts that "steal my joy".  I hate realizing that I'm purposefully engaging in an activity that encourages me to be discontent with my beautiful life.

My newest love/hate relationship is with Pinterest.  If you've never heard of Pinterest, the site is described as a computerized cork board where you can "pin" your favorite ideas or concepts that you've found, so you will be able organize them and to return to/access their direct websites more easily.   The way that I often explain it to people is that it's like a virtual 3 ring binder with an unlimited number of dividers (because I used to tear pictures or articles out of magazines and then stick them in a binder, so I could go back to the ideas again later).  My "pin boards" (or categories, if you will) range from
Home and Garden to For the Fab Five to Free Printables, etc.

It's actually a very helpful tool to reduce paper clutter in my life and to make it easier to revisit ideas about, well, just about anything.
The thing can also follow other people's pin boards and see all the things that they pin.  Which leads me to my problem...

I found myself becoming a tiny bit obsessed with Pinterest and what other people were pinning.

When I would look at other people's pins about activities for children, I found myself thinking, "Why don't I do all these cool things with MY kids.  I need to be a better mom."

When I would look at pins about home decorating or home improvement, I found myself thinking, "I wish our house had that." or "Our _________  room would be so much better if we could do THAT."

When I looked at pins that included fashionable clothing or fancy hairstyles, I would find myself thinking, "I'm SO frumpy.  If only I could look more put-together." or "The body that carried 5 children would NOT be able to make that cute outfit work."  Aghhhhhhhh!  Get the picture?

And once I realized what I was doing, it led me to think about other issues I was having with computer usage, like checking my email every 5 minutes or wishing I could just spend the afternoon blogging.  I was getting so distracted and it was really affecting my homemaking and overall attitude.  So, I had to go  "cold turkey".   I chose to extremely limit my time on the computer and gradually, I have allowed myself  to return to Pinterest.

So that was a very long explanation of why I "disappeared" from the blog world for awhile...

Now, hear me when I say, I am NOT anti-Pinterest.  I think the concept is fabulous and I will continue to use it BUT, and this is a big but, I am determined to be more purposeful when I do.  My "fast" helped me refocus on simply using MY "boards" and not looking so much at what others "pin".  And when I do choose to look at other people's pins, I'm making sure to fight any discontent that may creep in with reminders of God's truth.  I love my beautiful life and what I've been blessed with is more than enough!!!

Praise God, my cup runneth over--with or without Pinterest:)

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Good morning?!

It's 7:30am on a Saturday morning and I'm already on my second cup of coffee...let me just say--a morning that begins with two little guys getting up at 5:40am after a night full of coughing children, well, put gently, it's been a little rough around here.

Anyway, as I was looking through my blog notebook this morning, I came across a snippet that I jotted down about a year ago and it gave me a good laugh...


And this is how my morning began...
    fishing the toilet paper roll holder out of a urine-filled toilet.  Add in two leaky diapers and a nighttime "accident"--which brought me to a morning dealing with more pee than I care to think about...

Later in the morning I found a cup of water that someone had put Dorito crumbs in, which turned into a lovely cup of Dorito mush...

Motherhood is so glamorous, isn't it?

Well, there you have it.  I prayed for a little help finding the right perspective this morning and God meets me right where I am.  That little memory lifted my spirits.  I guess this morning isn't as rough as I thought it was:)

Lamentations 3:22-23 (NIV)

  Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
   for his compassions never fail.
 They are new every morning;
   great is your faithfulness.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Long time, No Post...

Hello there!

Yes, it's me.

I know, I haven't posted for awhile...

Trust me when I say, "I've REALLY wanted to and have written about 20 blog posts in my mind, but, well, I had to give myself a bit of a TIME-OUT on the computer".  I'll explain more in a different post...

but for now, I'll just say, I'm glad to be back:)

I hope y'all are doing well and thanks for stopping by!

Yes,  if you are wondering...I'm still counting to 1000.  So here we go--

171.  Knowing that a few days of cooking chaos will result in months of meal planning simplicity

172.  Watching Hope at her piano recital

173.  Children behaving well for our 1 1/2 hour shopping extravaganza at the grocery store

174.  A four year old willing to push our full 2nd cart:)

175.  The sounds of soft thunder and gentle rain as I ready for sleeping

176.  A chubby shirtless baby belly

177.  Vacuuming the living room at 10:00pm

178.  Spending Sunday together as a family

179.  Finally an interest in potty training!

180.  A trip to the church for bike riding and baseball

181.  Lots of compliments from the children at mealtime

182.  Trying a new recipe--that worked!

183.  Fancy colorful pens used to organize our calendar of activities

184.  Success in planning ahead...sometimes:)

185.  Catching a glimpse of a rainbow and remembering God's promise to Noah to never flood the WHOLE earth again (we needed that reminder after all the rain we'd been having:)

Thanks again for stopping by...
Blessings to you until we meet here again!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Great Expectations

New year, new idols to smash...

I sit in front of the screen and read tips and suggestions about how to "streamline" my life, become more efficient at running my household, then about clearing out the clutter and how to organize what's left.   I can't even count the number of emails that I've received that touch on one, if not all, of the previous topics.  It's hilarious, really, because I've come to realize that if I would just take that 30 minutes that I might spend sitting in front of that screen and actually use it to DO something--I wouldn't have to read about how to accomplish more, in less time:)

Every year I think, "This is it.  I'm going to get it together this year.  I'll have a smooth running home. Schedule in place.  Every closet organized (with lots of plastic containers, each one labeled).  Then life happens...

I appreciate all the help and suggestions, really I do, because let me tell you...the other day I was trying to find a notebook where I jot down blogging notes and I came across eight spiral notebooks (each of which had some type of writing in them) but NONE of them was the notebook for which I was looking.  How is this possible??  So yes, I can use a little "clutter cleanse" in a major way.

Many of the "experts" tell me to have a set CLEANING SCHEDULE, and my home will be in shape in no time.  Block time each day and assign different chores...
Problem is, that assumes that each of your days is the same.  

What about when life happens?  My 5 children and husband are living, breathing and very active.  They are not robots that do and say the same things every day.  I love the idea of a cleaning schedule and have tried and tried to make it work...but how do I include vomiting/feverish child in the schedule (complete with unexpected trip to the pediatrician) or the extra laundry and upholstery scrub that was needed when previously mentioned child missed the bucket?  How about the child that I was dealing with for 15 minutes during a temper tantrum (hers, not mine--just for the record)?  Is there a time slot for preschooler in frog galoshes tracking mud all over the living room floor clean-up? Or a block of time for "I left the water running in the bathroom and flooded the whole floor and basement"(that's a story for my book:)?  Or when my husband calls and needs us to run an important errand for him?  What about the time we spend enjoying a visit with unexpected company (which we love, by the way)?  How does all this fit in to my so-called "cleaning schedule"?

It has occurred to me that sometimes I let this dream of perfection become an idol in my life.  This quest for perfection can be consuming.  Something that can be SO defeating to me that I can barely function.  The constant thoughts about what I can't seem to get accomplished and how embarrassing an untidy home can be.  They lead me to become frustrated in so many areas of my life.  These thoughts send me in a downward spiral of negativity.  

"Sometimes, when you are too close to something, you can't see it clearly.  You have to get a new perspective."  -Soul Surfer

"When your attitude is bad, your heart's not right." -Facing the Giants

So this year, I'm gonna try to smash that idol of perfection.  I've decided to change my perspective.

What we need is more focus...

1. Daily Devotions (a MUST for me)

2.  More consistent chores for the children

3. Guided activities for the children--because left to themselves, they turn into 
    wild little creatures- running, screaming, wrestling, fighting, and undoing all 
    the work/cleaning that I've spent doing that day.

My focus should be asking God to help us find:      

a little more structure, a lot less stress
a little more function, and a lot less frustration
a little more order and less overwhelming chaos
a little more peace and less problem behavior

These are the things that I'm going to work toward in 2012.  Not designing a rigid cleaning schedule that will lead to feelings of failure.  Not perfection.  Now, don't get me wrong, I'll still be using some of those organizing tips and schedule methods, but first and foremost, I'm going to be "clearing the clutter" out of my mind.  Continuing to count my way to One Thousand Gifts and beyond. Blessings to you as we journey through this new year.  May it be one filled with joy to overflowing!

Praise God, my cup runneth over:)